The hasn’t been a better and exemplary man other than the Savior that gave us the true example of how to serve, live and love. He was the One and chosen to leave a legacy of a way to return to our Heavenly Home.
In our daily responsibilities whether will be as a employee, business owner, stay at home mom, working mom or working dad, etc we are in continuous interactions with others and there will be everyday ways to show our love and respect and admirations for those ones around us with no hesitation. So If we are openly committed to do so with other, why is so hard to accomplish such things at home? With the ones that matter the most and that are of great worth for. In my personal life I will refer to my husband and daughter. We go day by day thinking today we will do better in the way we communicate, interact, understand and listen to each other. Then another hectic day shows up and the desire of making a perfect day happen seems to fade when differences arise. How can I deal with my frustration when they come from the simple existence of the one I love, my husband? We are 2 totally different people, with different backgrounds and the way we think when performing the same task is completely opposite, but we have come to the point that, when we are making a project or big decision we talk it out with each other and then decide what will be best for our little family depending on what we agree TOGETHER. That word has a completely different meaning when in a team and developing that respect. That doesn’t mean problems will not come, of course they will, but the way we look at them will be completely different and more approachable and with the attitude of making work instead of running out of it. We will apply as many say, the old era motto, WHEN SOMETHING IS BROKEN, WE FIXED NOT JUST TOSS IT AWAY. Conflict can be perpetual most of the times and it will be our choice to either adapt and accept or content all the time.
In the beginning I mentioned the Venus and mars personalities that my husband and I have. It hasn’t been easy at all however I have come to the conclusion that, even If we are different at the end we all planets so there will always be something to have I common. Is our main purpose to find those pieces that match us and makes us stronger rather than find the thousand pieces that we are not compatible with. Is there when we find the strength for our marriage. If marriage was easy it wouldn’t be possible to be the kind of university that it is for all of us who are daily fighting the battle to have a lasting relationship. Compromising has been one of the things I have found very effective in my marriage and in the rearing of our daughter. We are to understand that the only person we can change is our own selves. When we stop trying to change that other person but rather we work together, we both will be able to progress and grow.
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