1+1=1

Logic sometimes pays a very interesting role in someone’s life. As we are going through life, we learn to do things a certain way. But there will always be more than one way to do certain things and to obtain the same result. So is it the end result or the process that really matters in these situations? The end result or the process. Comparing such thing to marriage I will say both. If I choose to do something in a certain way and get a positive result then all I’m doing is learning, growing and preparing for the days to come when that preparation will give the fruits, i.e. Friendship in marriage, communication, mutual respect, love, passion and compassion.  

Since we are little we are taught to be courteous, friendly, respectful and caring in any relation we develop with people we come across with, but is not until we do the thinking in what that really means that we come to understand the importance in it.

I have been happily married for almost 4 years, I can say it has been the happiest and most painful time of my life, the why of those t opposite feeling are mixed when we come to an agreement on how things will be handle or how they have should been handle.Happiness doesn't mean an absence of pain. In fact, I truly believe that in order to find happiness in life we must go through experiences that are sometimes unpleasant, in fact I’m a true believer than in order to flavor happiness in life we are to go through experiences that might not be pleasant at all times. Is there where we come to know better our inner person and learn to deal with unfamiliar situations In marriage there is no difference, we are 2 different people who happen to fall in love and try to build a new story together, we come from different backgrounds, raised by other 2 different people and in some cases like mine even different cultures. Is there were true friendship is develop. Friendship doesn’t really just means getting along but learning how to respect each other’s tastes, hobbies, desires, and ambitions and work together to make a one path with a lot of different construction materials. I can be then one bringing the cement and my husband brings the tractor and a shovel and the body to work with it, but at the end what we are looking forward to is that finish road were we both can walk and say we have built that together and become instead of 2 separate souls we will 2 entities turn into one soul. That is where logic will make his trick, even when 1+1 might look as 2, it can actually mean 1 at the end.