Many trends come and go and we seem to adapt depending of the
desire we have to accept, adopt or reject certain criteria when presented to
it. As a woman raised in a family with values I definitely cherish the value raising
a unique and value oriented one. I definitely
will say I’m all for marriage should be preserve, Now the question is why?.
This will become a personal not scientific answer to my question. What I have
seen and liked in either my family, those around me and so on I will resume this point of view in 3 bullet
point:
* Starts from the beginning. Education plays a huge role on our decision to be
and stay together.
* Hard work of raising children should be a priority not only a maybe on the
list.
*The growth of society depends a lot on the value we put into the
family unit. .
Years have passed and I have been able
to observe and learn from family patterns I have encounter myself with. I have seen that people is taught the value
of hard work and the need of being diligent with what we earn( in this case
marriage is a contract and we have the right to say we earn our title as spouse
) we have to be determine to stick together unless circumstances are radical as
an abusive marriage or a continuous
affair that refuses to be ended. If we since early ages are taught
this principles and the importance of being diligent and consistent with
everything we do in life, we will be more prepare for those days of our early
and late years, including our marriage.
Marriage
is defined in the lecture as a complex institution that helps unite the needs
of the couples and their children are their union produce. We have to
understand the definition of this line, the produce, is not something that
comes and will grow by itself; we have to guide, teach and follow with its
growth. From the formation of establish marriages we are to see the benefits
that come after we have been putting our effort in raising the children in a
good home, we never said perfect we say GOOD, working and willing to
improve this wonderful type of place to
live. But why is so important to stay together , to have a life together and
raise our kids together?
From a married stand point, having a team to do a hard yet
fulfilling responsibility is such a relief when we are trying to do those
things that are necessary to do our role. A team will always work together to
achieve one goal. Everybody involved will bring their own point of view, ideas,
input, suggestion etc and then as team we will choose what is more beneficial
for the success of the team.
That is exactly what marriage is, man and woman will work together
as spouse
And did I mentioned society?. How can we mold all of this and
landed in society. Well we all are part of a big and vast group called society.
We all play a role in what to do and what to expect. Is because of our actions,
emotions, contributions and examples that we move other to a better or worse
place. In personally want to be an influential person, who plays the role of
working as hard as I can to defend to privileges and duties that come with
marriage. The most sacred union that can happen in this life that will teach us
a whole lot while making us work harder and harder every day to reach the goal.
That is why is
so important for us to understand our role and act responsible according to.
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